Friday, January 30, 2009

30 weeks


For those of you asking for pics, here's baby bump at 30 weeks. I think we're in for another overly-active, crazy little man because this kid doesn't stop moving! He's woken me up at night a few times and stretches and rolls around like he's running out of room. Little does he know that he's still growing and he's not gettin' out any time soon!
We've set a date to get induced on March 31st because Aaron has a vacation week. If we wait, baby Dodge would be coming during a super intense rotation (the pediatric ICU or PICU). So, we picked that week to bring this little guy into the world! I wouldn't be surprised though if I went into labor before hand though (which I'd rather) because Search and Destroy were both a week early and this kid is measuring big. So, we'll see. Plus it's numero 3. That counts for something, right (Julia, you don't have to answer that:).
No names picked out. Maybe he'll just be Baby Madsen, or Dodge (not really). We came up with a few names that we both agreed on, but none that stood out. And, honestly, I can't even remember what those were. We already had a hard time naming Search, so baby Dodge is even harder! Why is that? We have a list full of girl names that we love, but boy names are hard. It's the same with everyone I talk to. I tend to like really nerdy names which my dear husband isn't too keen on. Bummer. He says Dexter is out of the question. But, seriously, isn't Dex the cutest name?
My pregnancies have become increasingly harder. I don't get morning sickness in the first trimester, just tired. The second trimester is great, as it is for almost everyone, and of course the third is uncomfortable. Varicose veins make my pregnancies just a treat... especially since I get them in an especially uncomfortable area, if you catch my drift. I didn't have any varicose veins with Destroy, they didn't appear until 7 months with Search, but with this one, they were here to keep me company around 3 months. I can't wait to give them a one way ticket home (well, round trip if we decide on number 4). But, I feel very lucky that I'm able to carry children full term and that my deliveries are easy!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Starting the new year off right

Here's for the males in my house!


Saturday, January 24, 2009

My boys

Last week the boys went on a preschool fieldtrip to a bounce-house place. Search and Destroy are a year apart in school, so they are in separate classes. When they got home I asked them about their trip and who they played with. I was surprised but not shocked to hear that they played with each other and not with their friends. After all, the are used to each other, and comfortable with each other. And... they LOVE each other! I find myself reflecting lately on how grateful I am that these two are such good friends and have so much fun together.

Although, it hasn't always been this way.
The first two years of mothering for me were so hard. I wondered what I had gotten myself into and I wondered if I would ever want kids again. Destroy was a very challenging child and it was that much harder when Search was born. Isn't it funny how none of the pictures I took when they were young summed up those years? If I had only taken pictures of Destroy sitting on Search or pulling his hair... or being the unnaturally young defiant child that he was, then I would be able to convey my thoughts through pictures. But, no, just like you, I mostly take pictures of the good times.There were moments when they were nice to each other. Like, once a week :) But overall, I thought there was no hope in friendship for these two.Yes, you can see how much Search adored his big brother back then. I mean come on? Who doesn't like the choke-hold? But when we moved to Indiana, things drastically changed. Up until we moved the kids had tons of friends right outside their door (gotta love student housing). Why play with your brother when you can play with your friends? Outside. Any time of year, I might add. (This single digit weather is making me miss the 70's of So Cal about now).But when we moved, they only had each other. They quickly learned how much fun they could have with each other and they fell into a groove. Now the two are inseparable. I mean, they don't even go over to friends' houses without one another. They do EVERYTHING together. Including: wrestling, rockin' out to Green Day and Jimmy Eat World (their new favorite, dancing to rock music), and even peeing together. They think it's hillarious. I just roll my eyes and remind myself that they are boys.The love to cuddle with each other, especially while watching movies. I often hear one telling the other how much he loves him. It melts my heart. They comfort each other, they stand up for each other (like against the big bad parents), and they encourage each other.
They love to be creative together and they engage in imaginative during play most of their playtime. I love hearing the things they come up with and play together.I think the best thing about boys is that they can forgive and forget. Just like all other siblings, these guys have their share of quarrels. But, 3 minutes later it's over, and they just go on playing like they were before. I'm so grateful for these two. I love that they love each other so much. Let's pray that it continues when they get older!

Now, another boy. The question is... do we have another baby a year and a half later (because at this point I think a girl is out of the question :) so he can have a buddy too? Am I willing to go through two years of hell again? Maybe the second time around would be different. I guess we'll wait and see!

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Starting over!

So... I feel like I am starting over with the whole baby phase. It's been a few years since we've dealt with bottles and binkys and booster seats. Oh my! Even naps and diapers seem a thing from the distant past. Search will be almost 4 when this baby comes! In Mormonland I'm way behind in the child-bearing category, but I needed some space from the baby phase and time to recover from Search and Destroy in the younger years. Now I'm starting to gear myself to be prepared for midnight feedings, a nap time schedule and doing things with only one hand again. But mostly I'm trying to prepare myself for the lack of sleep that will come, and with that, crankiness on my part. Crankiness too often turns into me yelling at the kids. So, I'm already praying for help with that. I figured a head start wouldn't hurt :)

Anywhoo... I just have a couple of questions for y'all. Even though we have enough baby boy clothes to clothe a small country, we do need a couple of things for this child. The changing table that the boys jumped to death for instance and a bouncer that shouldn't have, but was used so much by a toddler that it sat on the floor and was no longer able to, well, bounce. My questions for you are:

Did you use a sling for your baby? If so, did you like it? And what kind was it?
What about the Bumbo? My babies tend to take a while to learn to sit up so it seems like it would be a nice thing to have, but it's pricey. Has anyone used one?

Are there any other baby items out there that are especially helpful? Any info is helpful!

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Book Talk

I read this in one day... it was SO good. Her story is so sad, she lost almost her entire family during the genocide. But overpowering the sadness and atrocities in this book are her faith, her devotion to God, and most of all her forgiveness to those in command of the genocide. It was an amazing book... books rarely make me cry but this one did. She's written another book which I have put on hold at the library. I HIGHLY recommend this book!